Where to buy


What are the responsible, 100% quality guaranteed, sex-positive, progressive, or feminist sex stores in the U.S., Canada or Australia? Which are the online shops worth ordering from, and which are local ones near you? Which companies make body-safe sex toys, and which sell 100% body-friendly and non-harsh intimate products? And before you even ask or wonder: here’s why not to buy sex toys from Amazon or e-bay. If you are looking for a list of education-based stores by geographic location, you should definitely check out JoEllen Notte’s Superhero Sex Shops round-up.

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Good sex stores or companies that offer education to their customers

Online Stores – U.S.

Peepshow Toys – free shipping over $70 and $5 shipping for orders under $70.

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Good Vibrations – free standard shipping over $69. They’ve been around since 1977. That’s no joke, people! And if you love your Hitachi, you might wanna consider the rechargeable Magic Wand.

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SheVibe – free standard shipping over $75. They create awesome comic-book inspired sexy art. How cool is that?

Vibrant – a new sex-positive store that only carries body-safe toys

Shop Vibrant

LUVOQA – free shipping on all orders


Shop Babeland – they don’t offer free shipping (unless during some holiday sales). Shipping rates vary.

Babeland new arrivals

Early to Bed – free shipping over $125

The Stockroom – free shipping over $99. BDSM, leather, vondage (vegan bondage), latex gear and sex toys.

Lovehoney – free shipping over $40, free returns up to 365 days after purchasing (they have an UK and Australia divisions, ship globally). Just be mindful that they store items that are not made of body-safe materials as well. Lovehoney runs jelly and TPE toys. Steer clear of super cheap deals, they’re usually not safe.  Stick to silicone and other body-safe materials. I support the store, because they offer free shipping for the lowest amount of purchase, they have really good customer service, and they accept returns up until 1 year of placing the purchase. They also have good special offers and ship internationally.

Free delivery on all orders over $40

My Secret Luxury – free standard shipping over $75

My Secret Luxury


Come as You Are – if you sign-up for their email newsletter, you get free shipping

Come as You Are Canada

Buy from the manufacturer

Mystery Vibe – Creators of Crescendo. Free shipping worldwide.

Mysteryvibe Crescendo

Chakrubs – sex toys made from 100% pure crystal. These beautiful, hand-crafted tools are created with the intention of opening oneself up to the healing properties crystals provide.

Tantus – free shipping over $100, free international shipping over $200

We-Vibe – free shipping on all orders to the U.S.

Make sex exciting again with We-Vibe Sync

Dame Products – free shipping on all orders to the U.S. Use code: Damehere.

Eva by Dame Products couples' vibrator

Lelo – free shipping on all orders to the U.S.

Fleshlight – free shipping over $60* (*continental U.S. only)

FunkIt Toys – shipping is included in the prices, + $5 extra for Canada and + $10 extra for international shipping

FunkIt Toys

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Healthy organic lube

Aloe Cadabra

Use code: AFWetlandia. This code is valid for one time use and gives you 25% off Site wide & Free shipping in the US.

Aloe Cadabra Sexual Lubricant


Use code “Wetlandia” to get 10% off of your purchase from Sliquid.

Sliquid Intimate Lubricants

Other stores I support

The Smitten Kitten – free standard shipping

Spectrum Boutique – free shipping over $99, $7 flat rate for orders under $99

The Pleasure Chest – free standard shipping over $75

Stockroom – great BDSM gear. free shipping over $159

She Bop – they don’t offer free shipping and their shipping rates may vary

Lotus Blooms – they don’t offer free shipping, flat rates shipping

Self Serve – a great store that also offers awesome classes and workshops


The Slinky Minx – free shipping over $150. They have a great selection of body-safe materials, small and independent businesses, great European and American brands.

MissX – free shipping over $150

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